Will I Ever Find Love If I Am Fat?
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Will I Ever Find Love If I Am Fat?

March 9, 2020

Hey, it’s Victoria here from fierce fatty
and in this video we’re talking about whether it’s possible, to
find love if you’re fat. Before we get started. Why not check out the links below cause
I have got a little something that goes along with this video it’s called
the love finding break through. And it’s a workbook that’s going
to help you find some love. It’s going to help change your mindset
and get you on the path of finding that special someone who gets to be with you. Make sure that you subscribe
to my youtube channel, hit the notification button and
share this video with friends. And if you like it can be a little
thumbs up wouldya? I’d love that. Okay, so if you are worried that you are not
gonna find love because you live in a fat body, I want to tell you it is 1000000% normal
to feel like that you are not alone in that belief thing is that
I believe is bullshit. So the reason why we feel like this is
because of the way that society views fat bodies. Think about all of the
Romcoms that you’ve seen in your life. How often have you seen a fat character
as the love interest and the love interest where the person
who is interested in them
is not hypnotized or drugged or has brain damage to think
that they’re attractive? I’m thinking like shallow
hall or I feel pretty, or any of those stupid films, but shallow hall used to be my favorite
film when I was deep in fat phobia I was just like, it’s so funny, they
dated a fatty, hahaha. This belief, It’s simply not true. So many people date fatties, so 67% of women are plus size. Are 67% of this population
doomed to single dome? No. So you might be thinking,
yeah, we’ll bet other people, but have you seen me? I’m
disgusting. I’m really horrible. They’re all pretty, Why not me?
Well, it’s bullshit, it’s bullshit, so this is Hetero dater, I’m sorry, but 25% of men said that
they would date a fat woman. If we think about 25% of the
world’s population, Hetero, sorry, but roughly, let’s say
50% of the world are men, 25% of them would date a fatty, so that is 1 billion dicks you have to
get through and you think no one wants to date you? You’ve got a billion dicks.
That’s fucking greedy. And what the heck? You’ve got no one to date you?
Bullshit, bullshit. So yes, it is harder to find a date, find love to get sex if
you are a fat person, because we have diet culture,
we live in a fat phobic society, all that sorts of stuff. So it’s not
that you’re imagining it, it is harder, but it’s not a fact that you cannot
find love if you live in a bigger body. All types of people are attracted
to all types of other people. Right? So if I asked a survey to the
people who are watching this video, what do you find attractive? There’ll
be so many different answers, right? There’s not one definition
of what is attractive. Yes, society pushes an idea of
what should be attractive, but we’ve got our own minds and we go
after things that we like and so many people are deeply attracted
to people with bigger bodies. So I used to always think that
people dated me despite my body, that they were kindhearted and they
looked past the idea that I had a fat body and my other attributes made
up for it. So, you know, my other attributes are being
like the best girlfriend ever! Being so loving and kind and funny and
making dinner and all this type of stuff. It never crossed my mind, that
actually they liked my body. Even when they told me, I like your body, you are attractive to me, you are
sexy. I just be like, yeah, yeah, yeah, why you’re lying? It’s not my partner’s responsibility
to try and convince me that they are attracted to me. I just couldn’t see it. And now looking back on pictures of
people who I thought were way out of my league and I’m like, what the hell are
they doing dating me? And I’m like, no, not so much Victoria. Um, you’re pretty
fucking banging. You know what I mean? So you don’t have to accept
someone who is dating you, who say they’re not attracted to
you. That’s not your fate, You know, you don’t have to date someone who
is dating you to be charitable, which I don’t think people
do anyway. You know, I don’t think it’s really a thing.
I know maybe, maybe some places, but you know, people generally want to date you because
they attracted to you and you and your personality and what you’ve got to offer
and your body and all of that stuff, right? So the belief that you’re not going to
find love as a fatty is a belief and a belief is not a fact, a fact or something
that’s 100% true 100% of the time. So it’s a belief that means
you can change it, right? You can change it because that
belief does not serve you. It doesn’t benefit you. Right? Because
what actions are you not taking? If you think that no one wants to be
with you, what things are you not doing? Probably a lot of things, right?
Because if you know the outcome, no one’s going to want to date me.
You’ll probably not on dating websites. You probably not putting
yourself out there. You probably not sending people messages, you probably not having dates because
you have this foregone conclusion that no one wants a date you, no one
will find you attractive. So let’s change that around. Go to the workbook below the love finding
a breakthrough and let’s shift some of those negative beliefs that don’t
actually serve you and get you to a place where you realize that there are many, many people out there who want to
date you, that wants to fuck you. They want to be your friend
and wants to hold your hand. that want who wants to give you kisses. There’s so many people out there
that want to do that I promise. So download that. And if you
enjoyed this video, give me a like, share it with people who
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comes out. And that’s every week. So I will see you in the next video.
My gorgeous fat queen. Alright, see you later.

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